Some waddup

These days are some of the most exciting days of our lives! All kinds of “waddup” is happening! Here’s a few of the most exciting things…

  • Casey Graham is changing our lives! This guy’s teaching on money is incredible! No doubt, he’s the next Dave Ramsey… and we get to know him before he’s famous! You should check out his blog! He offers regular, practical financial advice. Good stuff!
  • I’m excited and humbled with regards to what God is doing in my heart! One of the key lessons He’s been teaching me lately is that often my anger flows out of unmet expectations so perhaps I should change my expectations. (Yep, this one is going to get a blog article of it’s own).
  • I’ve never been so happy for one line! (If you can’t figure this one out don’t ask…)
  • I really miss being a pastor. I can’t wait to get back in the saddle in Cincinnati!
  • David Putman keeps saying,  “God is in the details.” He’s right… darn it.
  • I’m thankful for good friends.

I love ya’ll!

The “Feel” of the church

You know what it’s like…

uncertain.jpgYou walk into a new church and immediately, because of the lack of clarity, the unfamiliar environment, the new/strange people, and the unclarified expectations, you develop your own set of expectations… a sense of “what this is going to be like”. You’re not sure “why”… it’s just something you feel.

Our new church will have a “feel” too and we get to determine what it’s like.

Here are some things I expect people to experience when they walk into the church (in the form of a witty acronym) – FEEL

  • Familiar. We will work to eliminate unfamiliarity as much as possible. From the clothes we wear to the music we play; from the location of our church to the messages we present and the terminology we use in presenting them… we will seek to create an environment where there are multiple cultural touch points for the people walking in our doors. We will create an environment that is familiar, as much as possible, for our unchurched/disconnected-from-God friends.
  • Exciting. The church we start will be an exciting place. The music will be loud and high-energy as we celebrate! There will also be moments of quiet intimacy in the presence of our great God! From high intensity celebration to quiet reflection… there will be excitement! The momentum that is started through prayer and continued through stories of life-change will be exciting to the point of addiction! People will leave on Sunday afternoon thinking, “I can’t wait until next Sunday!”
  • Encouraging. We will speak with optimism and enthusiasm about the hope found in Jesus! We will speak the truth of Scripture in a way that confronts brokenness and unhealthy living, but we will do it in such a way as to offer hope! We will create an environment where people can confront their brokenness and leave with the hope of healing.
  • Life-changing. We will create an environment, through prayer, planning, and implementation, in which life-change is normative. Our church will be filled with stories of deliverance from unhealthy addictions, marriages that have been restored, guilt that has been erased, people who have realigned their life priorities, and on and on…! We will be a place where life-change is an expected and regular part of our DNA.

We will be a church that is different from so many secular and religious organizations because of the “FEEL” that we create.

Creating this FEEL will require:

  • A rigorous commitment to hearing the voice of our Leader (Jesus) through prayer.
  • A laser-tight focus on doing a few things with a high degree of excellence.
  • An unwavering policy of execution/implementation… we will do what we say.
  • A continued commitment to cultural relevance without compromising the integrity of our Leader (Jesus) or His Word (the Bible).

That’s the kind of church we’re going to create.

What are they looking for?

People find their way to this blog through a variety of methods. One of them is by “googling” a topic.

searching.jpgFor instance, people often find this blog by typing in “Paul Peterson”.

Some of the weird ways that people have found this blog recently include:

  • Woman boss loves woman subordinate
  • Shoulders
  • Birdfeeder
  • Buzz Lurman

What the heck are these people looking for and HOW are they ending up on my blog after searching for these things is beyond me!

At least they’re not getting here by typing in what someone typed in to end up at Dave Anderson’s blog! (Click here to see what I mean)

Lonely

Today I was sitting in a coffee shop working on church systems and I overheard a conversation.

A young lady was talking to an older man who she had “slept with” and now he was basically “dumping” her.

I tried not to listen but I couldn’t help but hear her heart breaking as she said, “You told me you loved me.”

I wanted so bad to go hug her. I wanted to share love with her. I wanted to let her know that she is lovely and that just because her “lover” is walking away from her does not mean that she is no longer lovely!  I wanted to tell her that the Creator of the universe loves her and finds her beautiful. I wanted to bring her home to my family so that she could experience the warmth and acceptance of a family. I wanted to but how do you interrupt that kind of a conversation?

Here’s what I know… she is not the only person being “dumped” today. 

We live our lives surrounded by people who have been dumped. They are hurting. They feel alone. They are breaking inside while presenting to the world a fake “I’ve got it all together” act.

Oh my gosh… we, Christians, are called to show the love of God to hurting, dumped, lonely people.

Please hear the silent screams of the hurting around you and extend your love! You may be the ray of hope that keeps them alive.

Andy Stanley on vision (Part 2)

“Vision leaks.” And the most critical thing we as leaders can do is to share it effectivelymaking-vision-stick.jpg and “plug the holes” before they leak!

Andy Stanley does a tremendous job of teaching how to share the vision and stop the leaks in his new book Making Vision Stick.

In part one of this two part post I reviewed Stanley’s ideas for sharing vision effectively. (Click here to read it).

In this post I want to highlight some ideas he shares for stopping the vision leak.

Stanley gives two categories of “Vision slippage indicators” (i.e. two ways to know when your vision is leaking!)

Projects, Products, and Programs

  • He writes, “Leaders must keep their antenna up for new things that have the potential to distract from the main thing.”
  • We all know how this works! Everyone in the organization (particularly the church) has a good idea about what we should do! Before long we’re doing a little bit of everything… except the main thing! And consequently the main thing is not as effective as it could be! Read this next paragraph to see how Stanley addresses this…
  • Stanley writes, “Our approach stands in stark contrast to a practice that many church leaders have adopted. I’ve actually heard this taught as a good approach to pastoral leadership. It goes something like this: When somebody comes to you with a ministry idea, tell ‘em, ‘That’s a great idea! Why don’t you lead it?’ This is heralded as an effective way to involve people in ministry. I think it’s a great way for a church to lose focus. Vision, not people’s random ideas, should determine programming. Vision, not a cool powerpoint presentation, should determine which initiatives are funded by your organization. Vision, not the promise of great returns, should determine which products are launched.”
  • Leader, keep your eye on the new projects, programs, and products your organization is launching/beginning. You can tell a LOT about the vision stickiness from what your organization is beginning!

The second set of “vision slippage indicators” are…

Requests, Stories, and Complaints

  • “Requests, complaints, and stories reveal a great deal about what’s on the minds and hearts of the people in an organization.”
  • Stanley says, “Consider this: If there was 100 percent buy-in to your vision by the people you work with, what questions would they ask? What kinds of stories would they feel compelled to tell? What would get on their nerves? Begin to listen. Really listen. If the people around you aren’t asking the right questions, telling the right stories, or complaining about the right things, you vision may be slipping.”
  • And one more memorable quote from Andy, “What people complain about communicates their understanding of the vision.”

This is a worthwhile read for any leader or any type of organization! It’s clear, memorable, and easy to read (74 pages).

Click here to purchase your own copy! 

What would happen if we prayed?

I was looking through the Bible this morning asking some questions about prayer.

I came across a verse that is sticking with me.

It is found in Acts 2:42. This verse describes the activities of the new Christians in the early church.

Luke (the author of Acts) writes, “[The new Christians] joined with the other believers and devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, sharing in the Lord’s Supper and in prayer.

Basically what was happening here was that the new believers were going somewhere with other new believers to learn more about this new way of life, enjoy the company of other believers, celebrate what Jesus had done for them, and PRAY!

So I started thinking… what would happen if we got together and prayed?

I’m not talking about the “Prayer Meetings” that most of us are familiar with, where a bunch of people get together, B.S. for fifty-five minutes and then pray for five. That’s ridiculous. Most of the time these “Meetings of Prayer” are just glorified gossip centers and a place for the person with the biggest mouth… okay, I’m going to stop now.

I’m talking about getting together with a group of people and REALLY getting serious with God!

I mean serious to the point of tears! Serious to the point where our hearts are breaking because of the weight we feel for our friends and family! Serious because we know that we may be the only person(s) representing our friends/family to God!

Oh God… I want to pray like this!

A great pattern for prayer that I’ve recently learned is PATH:

  • Praise God for being such an innovative, gracious, wise Leader. Tell Him what you think about Him and express your gratitude for His goodness in your life.
  • Ask God. This is where we tell Him about the people in our lives that we love (or need to love more)! We pray for the needs of others. We pray for our own needs. We go to our Father in Heaven and ask Him to meet others and our needs.
  • Thank God for the prayers He has answered and the promises He has made. Thank Him for being kind to you and others. Thank Him for loving you!
  • HELP! Ahhhh… this is the part where you say, “I can’t! I need help!” Help in loving your grumpy boss. Help as you seek to develop the discipline of self-control. Help as you try to pray more consistently. Help as you seek to make the right decision. HELP!

I just wonder what would happen if we would pray more?

Andy Stanly on vision (Part 1)

In the book Making Vision Stick, Andy Stanley cuts to the chase and puts some handles on this thing called “vision.” He tells us how to share it and how to protect it. In part one of this two part post I’ll hit the high points of how to share the vision and in part two I’ll hit the high points of how to protect the vision!

This is a worthwhile, easy read (74 pages) for anyone who leads anything!

A key point:

  • It is the leader’s responsibility to make sure that the vision is understood and acted on! To blame the people for “not getting it” is an abdication of leadership. Stanley writes, “If the followers don’t get it, we probably haven’t delivered the vision in a way that’s get-able.”

Five ways to make vision stick:

  • State the vision simply!  This is HUGE! The next time you go into a grocery store, hospital, church, or any other organization… read their vision statement (if you can find it). Most vision statements are ridiculously long! Stanley says, “People don’t remember and embrace paragraphs. They remember and embrace sentences!” BE SIMPLE!
  • Cast the vision convincingly! Stanley says that this is done in three steps:
  1. Define the problem that your vision addresses. People need to know what the problem is.
  2. Offer a solution to the problem! Tell them how you intend  to solve the problem. One key thing to remember is that a compelling, simple vision statement does NOT need to answer every question (e.g. who, what, how, why, when, where)! That’s what position papers, websites, etc. are for. Convincing vision statements are simple and compelling.  (Stanley points to the ONE campaign as an illustration of a simple vision)
  3. Present a reason to act NOW!
  • Repeat the vision regularly! “Build vision casting into the rhythm of your organization!” Schedule regular times to teach, explain, and champion the vision of your organization! Stanley says, “We all need to be reminded why we are doing what we are doing. We need to be reminded what’s at stake. We need to be reminded of the vision. And we need it more often than most leaders realize.”
  • Celebrate the vision systematically! “Celebrating the wins does more to clarify the vision than anything else.” And one more Andy Stanley quote, “What’s celebrated is repeated.” Celebrate the wins in your organization!
  • Embrace the vision personally! Listen to this… “Your giftedness may enable you to gather a following. But it will take more than talent to make your vision stick.” Making the vision stick requires the full buy-in of the leader!

Guys, this is a book worth picking up and reading… and reading again! If you’re leading anything click here and purchase!