Your church is dead if…

Bill Easum (did you know he has a blog?) has written a great post in which he identifies the signs of a spiritually dead church. He says, spiritually dead churches:

  1. Have lost their sense of mission to those who have not heard about Jesus Christ and do not pant after the Great Commission;
  2. Exist primarily to provide fellowship for the “members of the club;”
  3. Expect their pastors to focus primarily on ministering to the members’ personal spiritual needs;
  4. Design ministry to meet the needs of their members;
  5. Have no idea about the needs of the “stranger outside the gates;”
  6. Are focused more on the past than the future;
  7. Often experience major forms of conflict;
  8. And watch the bottom line of the financial statement more than the number of confessions of faith.

In this article he identifies some key issues that must be addressed in order to bring life back to the church!

You can read the entire article here.

Working with a church board

Two books that every senior pastor should read and lead his/her board through are:

  1. Go Big – by Bil Cornelius and Bill Easum, and
  2. The Unity Factor (the 2006 edition) by Larry Osborne

These books approach the subject of church leadership differently, but both are well worth the read!

In Go Big, the authors strongly advocate a pastor/staff led church. In The Unity Factor, Osborne advocates the use of a church board to provide leadership to the church.

While I lean more towards the staff led paradigm for multiple reasons, I walked away from Osborne’s book with a TON of great takeaways!

One of the best things we did as a leadership team (staff and church board), in the church I previously served at, was to take a two day retreat and work through the principles of Go Big! It helped our church move from more of a board led paradigm to one in which the staff was granted more freedom to initiate and execute ideas.

Whatever your take on how a church should be led, you will benefit greatly by picking up these two books and working through them with your team!

Some Walls Down waddup

Over the last few days there’s been a flurry of activity around Walls Down:

  • Walls Down now officially has an address - Walls Down Church P.O. Box 498829 Cincinnati, OH 45249-8829
  • We are setting up our office (in the lower level of my house, for now). This includes setting up a separate phone line, getting a copier (thanks Ray!), setting up desk space, etc.
  • We had our first staff meeting, and set the Walls Down calendar for the coming months!
  • We clarified meeting expectations. I’ll post those later, but in the meantime, if you haven’t read Patrick Lencioni’s book, Death by Meeting, please do yourself and everyone you meet with a favor and GO BUY AND READ IT!
  • A few other things are keeping us busy these days: setting budgets, securing a meeting location, documenting systems and processes, meeting new people, raising start-up funds, talking with church planting coaches, developing a web-presence (website, Facebook, MySpace, blogs), and a ton of other fun stuff!
  • It is an honor to work with Rindy. She is committed to the vision of helping people discover the life Jesus promised. She is passionate and articulate. She grasps the big picture, yet is attentive to detail. She has left everything (friends, income, home, security, etc.) to pursue this calling of God on her life. She is doing it full-time with no salary other than the funds she is able to raise on her own. She is doing it not because of what she may gain, but because of what she can give. It is an honor to serve with her.
  • Right now God is teaching me how to worship. He’s redefining my understanding of prayer. I’m sure I’ll post about that later, but for now it’s sufficient to say that prayer/worship is a critical part of this whole process… and no I didn’t just stick this in here to spiritualize the rest of this stuff!

Encouragement

This is what I saw when I walked into the bathroom at IKEA.encouraging

At Walls Down Church one of the components of our weekend environments is ENCOURAGEMENT. IKEA did a great job of encouraging and bringing a smile to my face with this sign. You can bet you’ll see something like this in the bathrooms at Walls Down.

Back @ Mountain Lake for a day

Sitting in the Dayton International (ha ha) airport getting ready to fly to Atlanta! Jeff Murphy and I will be at all four Mountain Lake Church services tomorrow. Shawn and the team are going to celebrate what Mountain Lake is doing through their church planter’s residency program. They’re going to give some info about where we’re going (Jeff = Columbus, GA; Paul = Cincinnati, OH) and send us off with some love!

Investing a year of our lives at Mountain Lake in conjunction with churchplanters.com has been worth every moment of this last year! I can’t imagine what else we could have done to better prepare ourselves for this church planting journey. I’m confident that we will encounter those “Oh my gosh what do we do now?” moments in this journey, but those are probably the lessons I wasn’t paying attention to… ;-)

A big thanks to Shawn, David, and the rest of the team @ Mountain Lake Church! AND a big thanks to all of our friends in Atlanta! We love you guys!

I hope I don’t get my way

finger in socketSometimes I look at my children and think, “If you knew what I know, you’d quit asking for what you’re asking for!” You know what I mean. They cry when you forbid them to stick sharp metal objects in the electrical outlets. They beg to play with the neighbor kids that you just don’t feel comfortable with. They get upset when you insist that supper consist of more than M&M’s. And the list goes on and on…

As a parent there are somethings my children want that I know if they get, they’ll regret.

I was reading in Psalms this morning (81:11-16) and I saw the heart of God the Father. It looks quite like that of a normal father. Check this out:

My people would not listen to me; Israel would not submit to me. 12 So I gave them over to their stubborn hearts to follow their own devices. 13 “If my people would but listen to me, if Israel would follow my ways, 14 how quickly would I subdue their enemies and turn my hand against their foes! 15 Those who hate the LORD would cringe before him, and their punishment would last forever. 16 But you would be fed with the finest of wheat; with honey from the rock I would satisfy you.

As I read this it occurs to me that very possibly the worst thing for me is the thing I want the worst!

God is virtually saying, to those who refuse listen to Him, He will let them stick their finger in the socket, or play with those unsavory neighbors, or eat as many M&M’s as they want! The consequential shock, harm, and/or obesity is the natural result of our unwise desires… desires which were fueled by shortsighted, self-serving inexperience and which could have been avoided if we would have listened to our Father!

As I read these words I prayed, “Oh God! Don’t let me have my way! Please let me know Your way, and then give me the chutzpah to live it out!” The crazy thing here is that the way of the father is typically, in the case of humans, and always, in the case of our Heavenly Father, the best way!

Those who do “the way” of their Heavenly Father find satisfaction. Lord, help me to do life your way!

My backup plan

Last week I changed the lock and tumbler on my van.laughing jesus

Today I changed the carburetor on my lawnmower.

If the whole church planting thing doesn’t work out, I may open a small engine repair shop.

If you listen you can hear the heavenly choir laughing…

To give is better than to receive… or is it?

I have always encouraged people who were in need to receive well, the help of the community (e.g. church, friends, etc.). I believe that life is seasonal. There are seasons when we have plenty and so we should give abundantly. On the other hand, there will be seasons where we have little and so we should receive gratefully.

The key here is to be as good a receiver as you are a giver! The problem is that most of us struggle to receive well!

Recently I read a great article about this very subject, written by Chip Anderson. He writes,

Giving without receiving is a power trip. Giving without receiving does not allow others into our need and ache. Giving without receiving deprives others of the joy of serving us. Giving without receiving does not require trust, humility or vulnerability.

These days God is teaching me to receive… to be a good receiver. It’s awkward, frustrating, embarrassing, humbling, and necessary! I’m realizing that what I have is not enough to accomplish the vision God has called me to. My guess is that’s probably true for you too! God has called you and me to do something that will require more strength, wisdom, money, experience, etc. than we have stacked up on our “Look what I have” shelves! Bottom line, we have to be good receivers if we’re ever going to accomplish what God is calling us to do!

Chip wraps up his post with this insight:

Full-bodied, authentic, give-and-take community is scary, sometimes painful and awkward, and other times beautiful and gracious. But, in reality, the kind of community that only gives and never receives is not really community at all; just a cheap imitation.

I want to create and be a part of a community that not only gives well, but receives well too! Thanks Chip for a great reminder!

You can read the entire article here… and you won’t be disappointed!

What does a church planter do to get ready?

The other day a church planter who’s moving to the area where he will start a new church, asked me what I was going to be doing once we moved to Cincinnati. Here’s the list:

  1. Getting our family settled in
  2. Focusing on personal, spiritual development
  3. Raising funds = lots of meetings
  4. Networking with local leaders (church and otherwise)
  5. Building relationships with unchurched people in the area
  6. Developing our staff
  7. Developing our core group
  8. Refining our systems
  9. Preparing for launch = purchases, securing a site, etc.
  10. Developing our teaching calendar

And I’m confident that more responsibilities will arise as we get closer to launch!