How to stop fighting over money

It’s simple, but not easy. We call it the “Coin and Calendar meeting.”

Every week, on Saturday morning, Sherri and I sit down and follow an agenda:

  • Enter any receipts into the checkbook that we haven’t already entered.
  • Balance the checkbook.
  • We review our debt-payment-schedule and ask this question, “Is there any extra money we can use to pay off debt this month?”
  • We review our calendars together to make sure there are no surprises. The fact that we both use Google Calendar helps a LOT!
  • We go through the mail together.
  • Our final step is to print out our updated budget and calendar. This allows us to see where we’re at for the week. For instance, I look at the budget and see that we’ve already spent $85 of our $100 for gas and it’s only the second week of the month… I know we need to drive less or reallocate some funds if we’re going to make budget!fighting over bills

A few questions:

  • Do you fight during this meeting? Yup.
  • Do you like this meeting? Nope.
  • Do you need this meeting to keep your marriage healthy and your home in order? Yup.

Having the “Coin and Calendar” meeting regularly keeps financial frustration from being a regular point of contention in our home!

Our friend Beth Nelson writes, “having a budget means I can buy anything I want.” And if YOU are going to enjoy this freedom you have to have a plan AND you HAVE to meet regularly! (Read Beth’s whole post here… it’s worth your time! and she offers to help you set up a budget if you need help!)

So there’s no excuse for financial pressure in your home! You now have access to:

  1. A Coin & Calendar Meeting agenda
  2. Links to a Spending Plan and a Kill Debt Plan from Re-Think Money
  3. An inspirational quote and an offer of help from Beth Nelson

Now go take control of your money and stop fighting about money!

2 Responses

  1. This gets me excited about budgeting all over again! Yippee!

    We miss you guys and think of you often – hope everything is going swimmingly in OH.

  2. Love it! That’s a great idea. We use envelopes…maybe we should bring our envelopes to a Coin and Calendar meeting. Keep up the great posts!

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