A few weeks ago we were eating at a restaurant that I like to think is God’s gift to eaters… Skyline Chili.
While we were eating, a father and son came and sat down across from us. As I watched them enjoy one another’s company I realized that my father did the same thing with me, and that many of my best memories were formed over a bowl of bean soup at a truckstop in Milton, PA.
We used to go get some bean soup and play a video game called “Sky Shark” that was located in the truckers game room. It didn’t cost much or take a lot of time, but it left me with a heart full of good memories.
Dads, the best gift we can give to our children is time. Time over a bowl of bean soup or a 5-way from Skyline. Time spent teaching them, learning from them, talking with them, laughing with them, crying with them… time doing the normal things of life with them.
Someday I want my girls to enjoy me as much as I enjoyed being with my dad and as much as this young man was enjoying being with his dad. I know I can have that in the future, and so can you, if we’ll start the habit now.
By the way, I don’t normally take pictures of strangers while they’re eating… or anytime for that matter. Well, not usually… but that’s for another day.
I loved my “dad” time. It was never anything extravagant, but it was always special. I am almost 30 and I still like when I get to go somewhere alone with my dad.
Amen.
Is that the Petro truck stop where the Iron Skillet is located? Just wandering. Didn’t know you lived in this area. Where did you live exactly?
Amen brother! Since going back to school full time, my dad-daughter time has diminished. I got do a better job of managing my time.